Roller coaster much?

Oh my life. Folks, it's been crazy.
The One Timer briefly recapped the California road trip that we went on and it was so fun! I was hesitant to go on the trip because I had been wanting to spend time with Bodhai and he had asked me on the date for that weekend, but alas I ended up road tripping with Rand instead. And it was a blast!
Guys, I'm going to keep this story as short as possible and in order to do that, I must just preface some things that I have learned about Rand al'Thor: he is the most perfectly confused boy with a bit of a lack of self-confidence, which is why he hangs on to things and has a problem letting go. That should explain a lot of the proceedings of the last couple of weeks.

We got back from California - that very night he came over to talk and tell me that he feels like he needs to be completely honest and he doesn't want to lead me on. Something just wouldn't let him like me, and he didn't think this was going anywhere. I was thrilled!! It made my decision for me, and I no longer had to stress about the situation with Rand, we could just be friends... or so I thought.
But then, the very next day Rand expressed interest in The One Timer.
Yeah.
What?!
And so for a week The One Timer was in a lovely love triangle with Rand and Twitch (which I am positive she will give you some excellent details on in a later post), and I was blissfully unaware of the whole situation. When I was finally let into the loop, I barely had enough time to register the ridiculousness of the situation and realize that I was kind of hurt that he dropped me like a hot tamale and turned so quickly to my roommate.
Before I even had time to completely understand what was going down and less than a week from the day that he told me that nothing was going to happen between us, he called me and asked me on a date! WHAT THE HECK IS HAPPENING IN THIS BOYS MIND? What makes him think this is okay? It totally made me feel like he realized he didn't have a chance with The One Timer, so he figured he might as well just take me on a date. But I refuse to be someone's second choice!
My direct quote when he asked me on this date: "What the freak Rand?! You are killing me!"
He told me that he knows that he put me through an emotional roller coaster through that week and it would be perfectly fair if I said no, but he really would like to take me on a date. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to go on the date. I think a lot of my motivation was because I was planning on grilling him with questions, making him completely explain what was going on.

And THEN while all of this drama was occurring with Rand, I was spending time with Bodhai. We went on a date that I swear was tailored just for me: nicklecade, frozen yogurt, Harry Potter movie, and cuddling. I was  really starting to like this boy, but once this whole Rand thing happened, it made me confused about Bodhai as well.

There you have it. That was my situation about a month ago. Further updates to follow.
The Friendly Kisser