This quote from Pride and Prejudice ought to be the theme of my love life. A man's attractive level increases ten-fold when he is willing to dance. I'm not even talking good, choreographed dancing. This is good old fashioned dance party breaking it down and thrashing and moving like crazy. I don't care if he is good at dancing... that is not what is important here. It is the principle behind the willingness to go to a dance party that I find attractive: the lack of self-consciousness, the confidence to be crazy and flail about, and the willingness to let loose and have fun. In my eyes, these are some of the most amazing qualities that a man can possess. And men rarely do possess them.
Rarely do I find a man willing to dance with me. And the few who are willing, often they are fun to dance with for brief moments and then get bored to quickly or turn out to be tools beyond belief. Is it too much to ask for a boy who is willing to be crazy and ridiculous with me? I suppose one can be both of those characteristics and still not be fond of dancing. But it is definitely is much easier to discern their personality when they are laying it all out on the dance floor.
So gents: come one, come all and dance with me! Let us hit up all the clubs and crash all the house parties together and fall deeply, madly, and dancingly in love.
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